well I had plans of giving a detailed update about all that has happened since I left but it's very very detailed and I do not think that I would ever complete it so i'll make it short and sweet!!
FAMILY:
We have Sissy and Bubba full time now wich is just amazing we have had them for almost a year now! And the other three kiddos from earlier in the blog Ultra Man and of course and the Irish Twins Whooty and Big E Boy!
Sissy is in 9th Bubba is in 6th Ultra Man is in 4th and Whooty just started Preschool! Biggy E Boy/Moto Master is two now and stays home with Daddy.
Daddy of this family can not work currently and has not worked in almost two years. Momma has had a part time job since April last year and well that just wasn't cuttin it so I added a full time job 3 weeks ago. Man what an adjustment for every one. I am gone 50-60 hours per week and 7 days a week. But I am so very blessed to have a job let alone two since so many can not find one!
We all squeeze into our little 3 bedroom home but that may change soon as a company wants to purchase our home if only we can find another.
STRUGGLES:
We have some ex wives problems and drama we deal with almost constantly and Daddy's family doesn't have anything to do with us anymore. which is fine because with thier choices in life the feelings are mutual. I wish I could bare it all so bad! I wish I could tell you about but I just can't now maybe someday it's horrible!! For now I will just tell you they turned their back on this family namely the children when they were needed it's been 15 months now and I do not know it will ever change or that I want it to. and of course the usuals of having a teen, having boys, having toddlers and well just life of course!
STRENGTHS:
We know no matter what we have eachother!! that in and of it's self is MOST important we all love eachother beyond words through thick and thin we all ALWAYS are fighting for eachother. to put it cheesy ALL FOR ONE AND ONE FOR ALL only in this family it is very literal!
for now thats all night ya'll
Friday, September 30, 2011
Friday, September 16, 2011
Tis The Season
Tis The Season....FOR ILLNESS!! I was going to start giving you all the big update today but I have felt like total crud!! I have coughed and coughed non stop since 3pm and my chest is just raw!!I feel so so run down. Tried some home remedies to no avail guess I'll have to wait till tomorrow to try some other meds should be interesting sleepin tonite :( wish me well TTUS
Thursday, September 15, 2011
WE'RE BACK!!!
WOW so much has changed since I last posted since like almost two years ago lol. Well my computor crashed then and when I got a new one i didn't rember how to get here till today Lol. Anywho I FOUND IT :0) and I will be updating you about the whole clan very soon!! with a hug and a kiss I'm out like this!!
Friday, November 27, 2009
Thanksgiving
ok so Hubby called (from work) the 1st ex-wife all day wednesday because we were to pick up Bubba & Sissy Wednesday night and she didn't answer. She also didn't show up with the kids :( So we were quite upset about it but decided to not let it ruin our thanksgiving. Thursday we showed up at Hubby's little brother Ziggy's for Thanksgiving dinner. We showed up before everyone else when Hubby's mother arrived she said that hubby's big brother Luke Skywalker was on his was with the 5 kids. and thats when it all blew up. See Luke only has 3 kids and hubby's mom went on to say that she had hubby's other two kids!! Bad bad situation! I blew up!! and hubby was pissed too! After that we both seattled down and figured well we have the kids now so thats an awsome thing!
I had to take Ultra-Man down to meet his mom half way between Ziggy's and our hometown upon returning Hubby informs me that Bubba and Sissy have to leave with his mother at the end of the day because she was only to have them till that night.(we were to have them from the 25th-29th) Thus causing me to get uber pissed of yet again mostly because it's our weekend and they would be missing my family Thanksgiving friday)After alot of back and fourth I convinced him to call her and say it's dumb to take them home on thursday just for her to drop them back of friday. Well she wouldn't answer anyones phone calls or texts!So when Hubby's mother was leaving she took the kids :( After many text messages from the Hub she called and said had no plans of letting us have the children untill we had a phone thus causing Hubby to get pissed and start to yell and call names (LOL) She hung up on him. He sent he a text that said "You will have the kids brought to me on time friday or i will show up at your door with the sheriff And I will be calling my lawyer and we will be getting rid of your little full custody operation no judge will deny me joint. You mess with the bull you get the horns" Lo and behold she calls acting all nicey nice and saying we can pick the kids up from Hubby's mom that night :)) YAY :))did I mention YAY?!!!!
So last night we had four of ours (Ultra-Man was at Bio-Moms) Plus Luke Skywalker and Leia let there middle girl Bo-Bot stay with us FINALLY after years of her & us asking! So that made me feel really really good!! We all had fun and it was a pretty late night lol.
Today no black friday shopping for me (wouldn't be caught dead doing that plus I aint got the $$ anyhow) I am just hanging out here at the house with theese 5 kiddos and waiting for it to be time to go to my family Thanksgiving with all 5 of our kids and maybe bring along the bonus Bo-Bot :)
After some research last night I decided that next week I will be getting Whooty potty trained! I am going cold turkey on the diapers! Here is my method; Stay home for at least 3 days, pump her full of liquids and let her run around farel (aka~naked) all day with the potty out and ready for her to get to or me to run her to mid stream lol. Anyways wish me luck!
Gunna put Big-E-Boy to sleep more another day
I had to take Ultra-Man down to meet his mom half way between Ziggy's and our hometown upon returning Hubby informs me that Bubba and Sissy have to leave with his mother at the end of the day because she was only to have them till that night.(we were to have them from the 25th-29th) Thus causing me to get uber pissed of yet again mostly because it's our weekend and they would be missing my family Thanksgiving friday)After alot of back and fourth I convinced him to call her and say it's dumb to take them home on thursday just for her to drop them back of friday. Well she wouldn't answer anyones phone calls or texts!So when Hubby's mother was leaving she took the kids :( After many text messages from the Hub she called and said had no plans of letting us have the children untill we had a phone thus causing Hubby to get pissed and start to yell and call names (LOL) She hung up on him. He sent he a text that said "You will have the kids brought to me on time friday or i will show up at your door with the sheriff And I will be calling my lawyer and we will be getting rid of your little full custody operation no judge will deny me joint. You mess with the bull you get the horns" Lo and behold she calls acting all nicey nice and saying we can pick the kids up from Hubby's mom that night :)) YAY :))did I mention YAY?!!!!
So last night we had four of ours (Ultra-Man was at Bio-Moms) Plus Luke Skywalker and Leia let there middle girl Bo-Bot stay with us FINALLY after years of her & us asking! So that made me feel really really good!! We all had fun and it was a pretty late night lol.
Today no black friday shopping for me (wouldn't be caught dead doing that plus I aint got the $$ anyhow) I am just hanging out here at the house with theese 5 kiddos and waiting for it to be time to go to my family Thanksgiving with all 5 of our kids and maybe bring along the bonus Bo-Bot :)
After some research last night I decided that next week I will be getting Whooty potty trained! I am going cold turkey on the diapers! Here is my method; Stay home for at least 3 days, pump her full of liquids and let her run around farel (aka~naked) all day with the potty out and ready for her to get to or me to run her to mid stream lol. Anyways wish me luck!
Gunna put Big-E-Boy to sleep more another day
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Thanksgiving 2marrow and ECT
First up that stinkin remote! You'll never guess were it was...Under Hubby's butt!!! He didn't feel the need to get up and help us look since he had been working all day. He went all night without a remote. I eventually put in a movie for him and went to bed with him following suit shortly after. The next moring the remote search resumed first thing and I told Ultr-Man to look in the chair were Hubby had been sitting and sure enough there it was shoved down behind the cushin and the back!
Ultra-Mans party turned out great for him for the most part! His Bio-mother, her daughter & nephew didn't show and Hubby's lil bro, wife & daughter didn't show so he was kinda disappointed about that. I was the one who was really hot under the collar about that one though! Pisses me off his own uncle can't show up to his party!! The thing that bothered him most was Bubba & Sissy not being allowed to come :( Hubby's first ex- wife is a major _____ ____ ____ if ya know what I mean!! But he had a great time with the people who did come! He has never had any party but a little at home party which are usually ok but I believe that everyone needs to have AT LEAST one super special party! So this was deffinately his. I will have to say I was very happy to see both sides of our family together and getting along ok! There is a lot of past issues!! A lot of hurt feelings btw my family & his & me & his family(looooooong story)(not your "normal" in-law problems though I should mention) but I am soo glad to have seen everyone come together happily over Ultra-Man!!!!
Hubby is gunna pick up Bubba & Sissy this evening! We get to keep them untill Sunday b/c there Bio has to work. We haven't got to see them since halloween weekend! Whooty is going to be soo soo HAPPY she is the biggest Sissy's girl EVER!! No one else exsisits to Whooty when Sissy is here, which is fine with me I love to see healthy sibling realtionships!! I was an only child untill I turned 12 then had a lul Bro I spoiled! anyways
Thanksgiving::: Tomorrow should be great if all goes how I have coordinated! We have the Hubby's family thing at 12. We get to have all 5 kids this is what I will be most thankful for! Then we will have Ultra-Man back to his mom's by 4ish so they can do there thing. I will pick Ultra-Man up from Bio-mom's at like 11ish on Friday to go to my family thing! This thanksgiving should be flawless (knock on wood) my family always does the get togethers on the holiday so it actually works out awsome this year that we didn't! Though the Hubby has to work and will be absent (honestly I don't think he minds one bit!! not that he dislikes my Fam just not a big people person)That being said Christmas we are going to do our own family thing AT HOME. We tried to do this last year for Whooty's first Christmas but that didn't work and our whole christmas turned out kinda crappy! So we will be staying home this year!!
Gotta go get Ulra-man as he is out early!
a Hug & a Kiss & I'm out like this
Momma
Ultra-Mans party turned out great for him for the most part! His Bio-mother, her daughter & nephew didn't show and Hubby's lil bro, wife & daughter didn't show so he was kinda disappointed about that. I was the one who was really hot under the collar about that one though! Pisses me off his own uncle can't show up to his party!! The thing that bothered him most was Bubba & Sissy not being allowed to come :( Hubby's first ex- wife is a major _____ ____ ____ if ya know what I mean!! But he had a great time with the people who did come! He has never had any party but a little at home party which are usually ok but I believe that everyone needs to have AT LEAST one super special party! So this was deffinately his. I will have to say I was very happy to see both sides of our family together and getting along ok! There is a lot of past issues!! A lot of hurt feelings btw my family & his & me & his family(looooooong story)(not your "normal" in-law problems though I should mention) but I am soo glad to have seen everyone come together happily over Ultra-Man!!!!
Hubby is gunna pick up Bubba & Sissy this evening! We get to keep them untill Sunday b/c there Bio has to work. We haven't got to see them since halloween weekend! Whooty is going to be soo soo HAPPY she is the biggest Sissy's girl EVER!! No one else exsisits to Whooty when Sissy is here, which is fine with me I love to see healthy sibling realtionships!! I was an only child untill I turned 12 then had a lul Bro I spoiled! anyways
Thanksgiving::: Tomorrow should be great if all goes how I have coordinated! We have the Hubby's family thing at 12. We get to have all 5 kids this is what I will be most thankful for! Then we will have Ultra-Man back to his mom's by 4ish so they can do there thing. I will pick Ultra-Man up from Bio-mom's at like 11ish on Friday to go to my family thing! This thanksgiving should be flawless (knock on wood) my family always does the get togethers on the holiday so it actually works out awsome this year that we didn't! Though the Hubby has to work and will be absent (honestly I don't think he minds one bit!! not that he dislikes my Fam just not a big people person)That being said Christmas we are going to do our own family thing AT HOME. We tried to do this last year for Whooty's first Christmas but that didn't work and our whole christmas turned out kinda crappy! So we will be staying home this year!!
Gotta go get Ulra-man as he is out early!
a Hug & a Kiss & I'm out like this
Momma
Saturday, November 21, 2009
long day & long night & long day 2marrow!!
So I let Whooty sleep for 4 hours yesturday starting at 10 b/c she wasn't feeling well & had a temp. We use cloth diapers half or so of the time but always put disposables on at night well last night we were out!! both kids were up off & on taggin teaming mom more then usual so she got no rest! Then at 3:30am Whooty came in our room fell to sleep for about an hour then the wallering began & she was up & bouncing by 5:00 so needless to say I got hardly any sleep! (I know I have bad spelling, grammar & format~ sorry!)
Decided to pick up & take the kids the 20minuets to my moms (maybe I could catch a nap) not having phones sucks because when we got there she wasn't home :( I waited a while then head to the big city were my hubby works. When I arrived he said my mom had called and was at our house lol guess we passed eachother and didn't know it!! We both wrote notes to eachother though :o) spent the rest of the day entertaining kids while Dad finished work & did a side job.
Got home a bit ago and couldn't find the remote (this happens alot ;p ) Hubby is upset about that can't wach any tv w/o it) but ya know last thing i'm thinkin about it the remote lol (especially when I am sleep deprived!!) I don't even wach tv!! It still hasn't been found but when it is I told him he can take it to work with him so he will know where it is lol!
Tomorrow is Ulta-Man's party I hope he loves it!! I of course don't have everything I need so will be running around crazy tryin to get it all b/4 the party...I even 4got the cake today . Hopefully all will turn out great tomarrow,
wll I am off to try to and get some sleep~ night!!!!!
Decided to pick up & take the kids the 20minuets to my moms (maybe I could catch a nap) not having phones sucks because when we got there she wasn't home :( I waited a while then head to the big city were my hubby works. When I arrived he said my mom had called and was at our house lol guess we passed eachother and didn't know it!! We both wrote notes to eachother though :o) spent the rest of the day entertaining kids while Dad finished work & did a side job.
Got home a bit ago and couldn't find the remote (this happens alot ;p ) Hubby is upset about that can't wach any tv w/o it) but ya know last thing i'm thinkin about it the remote lol (especially when I am sleep deprived!!) I don't even wach tv!! It still hasn't been found but when it is I told him he can take it to work with him so he will know where it is lol!
Tomorrow is Ulta-Man's party I hope he loves it!! I of course don't have everything I need so will be running around crazy tryin to get it all b/4 the party...I even 4got the cake today . Hopefully all will turn out great tomarrow,
wll I am off to try to and get some sleep~ night!!!!!
Friday, November 20, 2009
blow to the self esteem
Ultra-Man just exclaimed that it must be cool to have two belly buttons! After a few questions about how he has come to this conclusion b/c he says" u have 2 tummies so u must have 2 belly buttons :( :( :( :( Guess i didn't think it was that bad!!! lol oh well thats what back to back babies will do to ya!!
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